Mindset Madness
“If I have the belief that I can do it, I shall surely acquire the capacity to do it, even if I do not have it at the beginning” – Mahatma Ghandi
I have mentioned in my previous blogs that my mindset is my biggest challenge and my greatest weakness. It is something I am committed to strengthening on a daily basis. It isn’t an easy task by any stretch and it is going to be something that takes many, many years to master. The truth is, your thoughts control your world. If you constantly let negative thoughts and past experiences enter your mind, you will continue to be burdened by them. I am guilty of many of these thoughts, just this week I was reminded of negative feelings and thoughts caused by an ex when I ran into them. I often have negative thoughts enter my mind about the person that I used to be – the overweight unhappy one. My financial situation will remind me of questionable life choices that I have made. It is inevitable that these will constantly be with us, however what is in our control is how we react and deal with those thoughts, because lets face it, if negative thoughts were on our mind all of the time, we would be bloody miserable!
So, I thought I would share a few of the mechanisms that I am putting into place to help mould and strengthen my mindset. Obviously these aren’t for everyone and it comes down to whatever works for you:
- Reflection: is something that I make time for each evening. I take literally no more than 10 minutes a day to sit down and evaluate what worked well in my day, what didn’t work well and what I did to progress towards my goal. For me the majority of this is focused around my competition prep and training. It helps me identify patterns and triggers for behaviors that are stopping me from getting to where I need to be.
- Reading: knowledge is power. I am currently reading a number of books which are helping me to really identify my goals for the future, and mechanisms that I can put in place to foster the right mindset. These include: MegaLiving! 30 days to a Perfect Life, 21 Days to Master Success and Inner Peace and The Monk Who Sold his Ferrari. These have all been recommendations from my Comp Coach.
- Hot Yoga: I am making an effort to get back to practicing hot yoga at least twice a week. Not only does this help to improve my flexibility and recovery, it is something that I enjoy so very much. Yoga has been a part of my life on and off over the past 5 or so years. The benefits of yoga go far beyond the physical for me, it provides me with the opportunity for my body and mind to come together to challenge myself mentally with my thoughts, push my body in a safe environment and enter a state of utter relaxation.
- Positive thoughts and affirmations: this one is a little newer to me and something that I am still not 100% comfortable with, however, I am noticing massive shifts in my mindset and self perception. There are a number of things that I remind myself when I wake up and go to sleep at night, as well as reinforce if I am having negative thoughts or I know I am about to fall off the wagon with my nutrition or if I am struggling to find motivation to train. Some examples are: Food does not control me. I eat to fuel my training because I am an athlete. A number on a scale does not define who I am as a person. Food does not fix how I feel – it is not a solution to dealing with emotional trials. This is my lifestyle, not a diet, this is how I eat on a daily basis. I am not deprived of anything. This is my choice.
- Mission Statement: as part of my readings and goal setting actions from MegaLiving! 30 days to a Perfect Life, I had to write my own Mission Statement. I usually cringe when asked to write anything like this and it took me FOREVER. However I didn’t stop until I had finished. For some reading this, it will sound ridiculous and just isn’t your thing, and that is ok! But for me I found it to be quite a valuable task. I will share mine with you, in the interest of making myself accountable to activity, and I challenge you to sit down and do the same, you might be pleasantly surprised!
My mission is to become a strong, confident woman with integrity and compassion. I will lead an incredible life by attaining a resilient, focused mind. A strong body in a constant state of peak wellness both physically and mentally which I will use to educate and coach others seeking to be the best person they can be. I will have an amazing partner, family and supportive friends with a professional career that enables me to turn my lifestyle into an income that generates great wealth. I will be patient, courteous, genuine and loyal to myself and all of those in my life. I will live my life to the max with absolute passion and energy.
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